A Better Life with Bernette

A better life is possible and well within your reach and I can help. Many life coaching programs create a heavy reliance on a coach to answer what you are supposed to do next or simply ask the client questions to help the client figure that out for themselves. They may focus on a specific goal or a personal block that is preventing you from achieving results across many areas of life. My coaching and related services are more the latter.

My desire is to help you unblock your potential and access the power you have within to transform your life. I take a spiritual, yet realistic, approach to coaching and providing advice; recognizing that we are spiritual beings having a very human and physical experience.


My life coaching services include Creating Miracles, spiritual guidance and counseling, and the Stepping Stones game.

Life coaching is most effective when clients commit to the processes I use to affect change. Bernette prefers to help others grow and develop in their authentic selves, recognize their potential and power and create the lives they want using coaching, spiritual healing, and guidance. Spiritual guidance often includes channeled wisdom.

Creating Miracles

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This is the primary coaching program and is open to anyone who seeks transformational change and can commit to a minimum of 21 days using simple tools to begin. Ongoing coaching and support is available or you can follow the program and use the tools independently. Learn more about Creating Miracles in your life.

Stepping Stones Game

Stepping Stones GameThe Stepping Stones game is a tool I created for a fun and engaging way to explore your goals, dreams, and intentions as well as the things that show up to hinder and help you along the way.

As you take risks, see how life creates balance, overcome your limits, and figure out how to act in alignment with your purpose and dreams, you will see more clearly what you need to do to create the reality you desire.

To play this game as a stand-alone service, please book a one hour appointment.


Interested in asking a question through Spirit Speaks Real Advice for Real Life? Like our Facebook page and subscribe to our YouTube channel so you don’t miss out on this new offering in partnership with Rebecca Washington and Arcer.


Yes, you can ask questions about your pet. The better your questions, the better the answer. They have to understand what you are asking as well. Consider who they are and what they were like and whether what you’re asking would be the right question for them. Pets can be on this side or the other side.


Watch my interview with Jamie Butler (The Everyday Medium) on The Lighter Side Network

Listen to my interview on Blogtalk Radio’s The Psychic Inside Show. Joelle interviews me and I provide several callers with on-air readings. What fun!

For the mini spiritual readings go to 1:30.


Reiki to Release, Restore, and Receive

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Inspired by Access Bars and infused with the powerful, loving healing energy of Reiki, Bernette uses her natural intuitive gifts and your natural ability to heal yourself to help you release what no longer serves you, restore you to your true self, and help you be more receptive to what this universe has to offer.

If you seek general Reiki (and Access Bars) my Spirit Speaks partner and mother, Rebecca Washington is also available.

Available in 30 minute and 60 minutes

Spirit and Attachment Release

Spirit Release is the process of removing entities from your physical and auric fields safely and responsibly and returning them to the light or for healing. It begins with an attachments check, which is ordered prior to your session. The therapy includes the safe release of attachments and  remote/distance Reiki for 3 to 7 days following your release. Please ask about following your treatment with a Reiki session specifically for release, receiving, and restoring.

More information on attachments is available here.

Bernette is a multi-dimensional channel, bringing forth messages from the other side that both heal and reveal.  Bernette and her mother, Rebecca, also provide other spiritual services, allowing spirit to lead and guide. Together in 2018 they will also provide advice/coaching/guidance together with Arcer, Bernette’s master-guide. Watch sessions on Spirit Speaks channel.